Monday, September 17, 2007

How to end the week...

#1: By playing some pool games with your colleagues after work...
Fun time of pool game together! :DWho says girls can't play pool? *hur hur*Last day at SAFRA Mount Faber for the CPA pool game...good game gals! :))Don't I look cool? *bleah* :P
I know we didn't win the game...so what?! *bleah*

#2: By watching some live variety show in a shopping mall...
Pop by Suntec after work and guess what I come across...The finale of the Citispa Big Challenge! Geez...I finally get to see the filming of a variety show at a public place...coolz...lolThe workers of the show are trying to gather the public to vote for the contestants based on how much they have changed by comparing the photos taken when they just entered the show and the person they are right now in front of the stage. Manz...they look REALLY different! :)Since there is still time for me to spare, I consent to vote too.

No harm trying out things ya? Hahaha...lolThe winner is finally out and she is presented with a bouquet of flowers and a tiara by Bryan Wong is humourous in front and behind the stage. Xie Yun Yi is stunningly gorgeous in her photo shoot as well as the real person with a brilliant smile.

#3: By going to a great cell group meeting of fun and new revelations...
The contest for the Most Sunshine Guy in our combined cg meeting...
Contestant #1: Bernard!
This brother can cheer up without any effort at all! Hahaha...lolContestant #2: Javis!
The newly wed sure will shine with the smile of love from his marriage...

Contestant #3: Jason Liew!

He is certainly the winner...I mean who can beat him! :D He is always so full of humours and daring to show funny faces around...hahaha...you know you will always have a great time with this guy as he will not only give you his sunshine smile but to influence you to put on yours as well...lol But hey this is not the Cutest Guy Contest ya? Hahaha...lol *bleah*

I like last Friday CG session as Bro Darren talks to us about the importance of relating to one another and even have those little practical lessons there. No matter how smart or brilliant we are, what really affects us in our work and lives are not just the qualities of the job we are working on or our standard of living, BUT the people around us. If our relationships with our fellow colleagues and managers are good, we will still be satisfied and find joy in our work. If our relationships with our friends are good, we will never feel lonely. If our relationships with our family members are good, we will feel warmth at home no matter how tough our life outside have been and we will find the strength to carry on with our life from this resting place.

The practical session we had was divided into 3 little parts:

  1. Relate to another person face-to-face by giving positive comments about him/her.
  2. Relate to a small group of people by giving positive comments about a person who is also in the group.
  3. Relate to many others with your friend by getting your friend to talk about him/her to the rest of the group.

Most of the time we feel awkward by commenting about others in front of them or even talking about them to others in their presence. Yet, when you give those positive comments about the person, you increase their values in your heart...as well as yours in their hearts. It is the same thing as you talk to the rest of the group. And when that value is being raised, you will feel good about each other and relationship is created or bonded closer. Won't you agree? :)

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